Guest Post: 5 Tips to Be a Hot, Sensual & Successful Woman Entrepreneur

Sensuality. This is one of the most misunderstood words for women in business today. It’s a shame because the majority of us our leaving 90% of our power untapped when we lock this away. It’s not our fault though. For more than 100 years the meaning of sensuality has been twisted and polluted by everything from feminism to our ambition to achieve business success.

It now has a negative connotation. We associate it with being crafty, seductive, weak or being someone’s play thing. Wearing miniskirts and lip gloss. Flirting. Shame. Being subservient to men. Manipulation. Well, I’m happy to tell you that this couldn’t be further from the truth.

Merriam-Webster’s definition of sensuality is “relating to or consisting of the gratification of the senses” or “devoted to the senses”. During the years I in Italy, not only did I become acutely aware of the Latin root of the word, but I made an even bigger discovery. I saw sensuality lived out – daily. I witnessed what it meant to live sensually. True sensuality involves living with all 5 senses: sight, sound, smell, touch, taste turned on.

Once you liberate yourself and discover the truth, you can access power that can create astounding leaps in all areas of your life – personal and professional. Crush fear that blocks you and stunts your growth. So just how messed up are we? How does this lie manifest in our lives?

During a conversation, a client confessed she was never wore her hair down, bright colors or skirts when she went to speak at conferences – especially “hairy leg” conferences (where men are in the majority). Why? She feared men would not take her seriously.

What are a few ways a lack of sensuality and pleasure can manifest in your life?

• Depression, fatigue  and anxiety
• Numbness, lack of fulfillment and feeling void
• Low energy, burnout and sluggishness

I invite you to step into this power. Challenge yourself and the false beliefs you may have about sensuality. Discover firsthand what they can do. These secrets have been around for thousands of years. I rediscovered them living in Europe. Sensuality and magnetism flood your life with positive energy.

Five simple ways to use sensuality to transform your life and business today:

• SIGHT. Make sure you always look like you love yourself. Even when you’re feeling a little down, dressing sensually can make all the difference. Wear that dress or skirt. Use makeup. Let your hair down instead of pulling it back in a ponytail. When you look in the mirror, you’ll see how amazing you look. When you are out on the town, the looks and compliments you get will add to your happiness. Dress nicely at home. Looking good to feel good should be a priority 24/7.  It makes a huge difference even when we are on calls with clients even though they can’t see us. It has a major impact on your energy.
• SOUND. The obvious thing would be to listen to music you like more often. However, I’m going to take this a step further. Why not create a few life soundtracks? Put together a compilation to listen to when you need to get pepped up for sales calls or meetings. Put together a compilation for when you’re feeling a little anxious, and so forth. You get the point. Also, adding a water feature to your home office can have a wonderful effect on you and your productivity. Plus, it’s very soothing.
• SMELL. Stimulate your sense of smell daily. In addition to using a signature perfume when you go out, wear it at home (even if you are alone). Make this about your pleasure first and foremost. Aromatherapy and bubble baths are amazingly relaxing. I have different recipes to use depending on how I want to feel – relaxed, joyful, sensual, rejuvenated, etc. Let’s not stop there. You can also stop to take in the aroma of the delicious dishes you eat.
• TOUCH. Stop the quickie “lather up and rinse off” showers and make sure you set aside time for a sensual shower. Use a textured sponge or soft-bristled brush to clean your skin when you take a shower or bath. Move it slowly and lovingly over your skin. Infuse love into each stroke and touch. Tell yourself how much you love that part of your body. Be thankful for it and what it does for you.
• TASTE. Are you guilty of inhaling your food? Do you eat lots of canned and frozen foods? Has your palate been ruined by too much salt or sugar? One of the biggest gifts I gave myself was cleaning my palate while living in Europe. Avoiding food that is too salty or sweet is the key. You can gradually cut back on the amount of salt and sugar you use. You will begin to taste the true flavor of food – vegetables, fruits and even if you eat meat – it will taste better, more authentic. Eating should be enjoyed and pleasurable. Mom was right. Chew slowly.

These simple ways to involve our five common senses are just the tip of the iceberg. You may not think they have an effect on your business, but trust me, try this for a week or two and you’ll see just how powerful it is. What it does is add pleasure to your life, making you feel better and vibrate at a higher level of energy and exude positivity. Nothing compares to a woman who loves herself and treats herself likewise.

We are never completely in our power as women unless we harness the 6^th sense – intuition. Did you know that in addition to the previous six senses, there are 3 additional ones? They are responsible for bringing your desires into your life. This is the reason so many of us are leading numb, unfulfilled, mediocre lives – professionally and personally. It would have to write a series of articles just to scratch the surface of these three extra senses, so I won’t discuss them today.

I am going to do something better and more beneficial to you. I invite you to discover and tap into sensual power secrets that have been around for thousands of years. Ancient secrets I discovered while on a 10-year version of my own Eat Pray Love experience living in various countries, like Italy, the Netherlands and Sweden. Join me and other women entrepreneurs world-wide on my upcoming complimentary call. Get the details here www.TheSensualSuccessfulWoman.com

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Rhonda Cort is author of the forthcoming book “Don’t Trade Your Money For Love” and founder of MagneticWoman.com. Rhonda is a combination of love rainmaker, sensual power expert and social success mentor who helps time-crunched female entrepreneur build unstoppable confidence that attracts love, high-caliber men and social success that builds her health, happiness and bank account.  Rhonda invites you to discover the sexy truth and unleash your sensual power with a complimentary video series, “Sensual Secrets of the Successful Woman” at www.SensualAndMagnetic.com

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