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By Alicia Dunams
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How do people make friends on social media? (#1 Tip from @RickiLake)

Posted: January 31st, 2012 | Author: | Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: , , , , , , , , , | 3,341 Comments »

Social media has changed the world forever. In just 140 characters or an update to your Facebook status, you have the potential to connect with a complete stranger in the same town or across the globe. In an instant, Friendships are being formed. Business is taking place. People are connecting. And the world will never be the same.

But it isn’t that easy…

Many people are standing on the sidelines of social media, unsure of how to jump into the conversation and contribute their thoughts. There is uncertainty about how one can form bonds with people they have never met “face to face.”

Are you one of many asking the question, “how?”

That is why we are here and you can know one thing for sure… You are in the right place! We have teamed up with Ricki Lake, one of the most engaged celebrities on social media, to share 5 tips for connecting with people in an instant on social media.

Watch this video to hear Ricki Lake’s #1 Tip for Connecting on Social Media

2. Be Respectful.

Leave judgment at the door and respect that other people on social media have beliefs and opinions that are their own. This is what makes them unique! Just as in offline relationships, if you want to make friends, you have to be one first. If you want people to respect you, start by being respectful of them.

3. Be Inspiring.

People like social media for many reasons. Many will share that they feel uplifted and empowered to live their best life by connecting with inspiring and positive people. If you want to make a lot of friends on social media, be inspiring. Be encouraging. Be a friend.

4. Be Generous.

The more you offer to help others in life, the more “likeable” you will be. When on social media you can help others by supporting their work. Take the time to mention people, and give them positive feedback. When you re-tweet or share the content of others they feel good and are more likely to appreciate and connect with you. Remember, “it’s not about me, it’s about we”.

5. Find a Fun Community!

Following a hashtag community on Twitter or joining a group or community on Facebook is a great way to connect with people who are like you and who are usually looking for the same type of connection you are looking for. Twitter and Facebook are the largest gathering of individuals on the planet. Communities are simply small groups within. Think of communities on social media as you would small break-out sessions at a very, very large conference. The name on the door is the community. Pick the door that tells you that you share common interests with those on the other side. Then, open the door, step inside and say hello via a tweet or a post on the Facebook wall. You will be surprised that many are waiting for… you!

So you may be asking How do I start? Lets take the example of the Friends of Ricki community.

First follow Friends of Ricki on Twitter.  Introduce yourself to the community and join the conversation (Don’t forget to use #FriendsofRicki hashtag and cc: @AliciaDunams I’d love to say HI!).  Then like the Friends of Ricki Facebook Page and comment on posts on the page that interest you.  There are all kinds of weekly activities and hot topics on this page that are fun to talk about and share.  Next you could also then follow @RickiLakeShow on twitter and Facebook and tell the show you are one of the #FriendsofRicki.  Respond to tweets or even repost tweets that interest you and look for people to connect with in the stream. Always stay courteous.  Never include multiple community hastags on a tweet and enjoy!

If you love it, then your friends will probably too, so don’t forget to invite them to join the @FriendsofRicki party!

Do you have any ideas or questions about making connections on social media? Please leave your thoughts in the comments and let’s discuss.

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